I am the kind of person who forgives and forgets and that is
not because of my greatness but because of my nature (problem?) of forgetting
things. I can’t hold a grudge against someone because I simply forget what the
person had done and how I had felt at that time. I can have the same discussion
over and over again (over months that is, it’s not a medical problem, I assure
you). I can have the same realizations without realizing that I have had those
realizations before. I don’t miss things or people because I don’t remember
what I am missing. This characteristic has its own set of pros and cons. I can
believe again, in a person who had tricked me: con. I don’t miss people, makes
settling in new places much easier: pro.
Whatever it
is, a pro or a con, a boon or a bane, it is here to stay and is a part of my
being. Period! 